Thursday, March 5, 2009

80--CONTINUED--16

in 1981,on 27th of November, Craig was born. Now Larry and Jeanette have two sons. Larry was working at a shop where they make bedroom sets. He was still going to BYU and Jeanette was doing everything she could to help. She baby sat, sold tupperware and whatever she could to help. They were a growing family.

About this time, our bishop called Arlo and me (Gatha) into his office and ask us to go on a mission. Arlo was a little undecided. We didn't have an income to supply the money to pay for our mission and he didn't want anyone else to pay for it. The bishop said the ward would pay for it. He told the bishop that he would let him know on Tuesday following the Sunday when he ask us. I think it was a difficult decision, but he said, "he had expected his children to accept their mission calls and he couldn't tell them that he had turned his call down." He also knew that I wanted to go, so he told the bishop that we would go. We filled out the papers and when we went for our physical, we were told told that his heart was not healthy enough to go. He was sent to Denver, where he had bypass surgery. The doctor told us that his heart was on the verge of a massive heart attack. He had two more surgeries. One of them was to resew his sternem back as the first scar opened. Then he had bypass into his legs. I don't remember how long all of this took us.

Several months before our call, I was working at the Conejos County Library, I was asked if I would be interested in purchasing a Blue Cross and Blue Shield Medical Insurance. I decided to take it. I offered 100% coverage. The agent told me that he didn't know how they could offer me this policy, He worked for them and could only get 90%. This policy paid 100% of the bills for all three surgeries were completed, and when they were over, I was called to the county again and was told that they didn't know how I got that policy. After the time for healing and being ready, Arlo got Social Security, which paid for our mission. It was a time of miracles as far as I am concerned. The Lord made it possible for us to serve a mission. We entered the MTC on the 29th of September 1982, on Arlo, (our grandson)'s 2nd birthday. That night we received a phone call from Larry and Jeanette that Jeanette's father had died.

Our mission was a very special time for Arlo and me. We enjoyed the work and had a good time growing together. We got home on September 10th 1983.

Brian was born while we were on our mission. He was born on the 9th of July 1983. We saw him for the first time when we went to Provo for Thanksgiving.

All of our family went to Provo, to spend Thanksgiving with Larry and Jeanette. That was a special time. Gloria said that Arlo told Donnie how much he loved him. That was a thing that he did very seldom. Talking about his feelings was not easy for him. That was the last time all of us were all together as a family. Arlo died on the 7th of December 1983.


The next Summer Larry and Jeanette and their family came to Manassa, from Provo and spent the summer with me and were a big help to me. Larry built cupboards in my kitchen and it was fun to have the there. I wish I had a better memory.


Monica was born in 1984. She was born in Fallbrook, California. She was a beautiful little girl. Bonnie and Emery now had Shandi, Emery J. and little Monica. She is my eleventh grandchild.

Julie was born the next summer on the 7th of May 1985. Larry and Jeanette had been in school ever since they were married. Now it was time to move on. Jeanette had graduated from BYU earlier and now Larry graduated with a masters degree in civil engineering. They had four children and it was time to find work.

TO BE CONTINUED !

8 comments:

Jeanette said...

Actually I just finished school right before Craig was born. I didn't "work" until just before Brian was born. I did some substitute teching and babysitting. I sold Tupperward when Julie was born.

Jeanette said...

Larry graduated in 1986.

Larry said...

That was a sad time for Jeanette and me when both of our fathers died.

Kent said...

Yes, it was sad when Dad passed away. It was still fun for us to come home to Manassa and visit with Mom.

Remember that Thanksgiving at Larry and Jeanette's house in provo?

Kent said...

Yes, it was sad when Dad passed away. It was still fun for us to come home to Manassa and visit with Mom.

Remember that Thanksgiving at Larry and Jeanette's house in provo?

Gloria said...

It was a special Thanksgiving time. It was a neat experience traveling with Grandpa and Grandma since they rode with us. It was about that time that Arlo expressed a love to Don that he had never heard before. We had a good trip and visit with all.

Larry said...

Gatha is on a fantastic roll
I think that we should take a new poll
I'm ready for number seventeen
Long as Grandma Gatha keeps it clean
Working number 80 as her goal

Kent said...

Gatha is on a fabulous roll
I'd like to make it known to all
I have enjoyed each time she posts
I like when she writes bout me most
I can't imagine 80. I'm thankful for any history at all.


Bingham family, about 1936